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Collaborative divorce lawyers
Explore a calmer, more respectful way to divorce, focused on cooperation, communication and avoiding court wherever possible.
We're proactive
We don’t just look after you, we look out for you. That means we bring you insights, advice and keep you up to date on all kinds of legal matters so you can keep ahead.
We’re expert-led
We match a member of the team with the right expertise to every client, who will invest time getting to know you, who will look after your interests and ensure you have access to the whole firm when you need it.
We talk your language
The legal and financial matters might be complex, but we aim to keep things straightforward and explain everything in terms that are relevant to you.
Overview
A calmer, more constructive way to approach divorce
What are the advantages of collaborative divorce?
Collaborative divorce offers a calm, non-confrontational approach, that helps you avoid the pitfalls of long and costly court action and a great deal of stress. You and your ex-partner work together with your legal advisers to reach a settlement that suits both sides.
Because you won’t be restricted by the requirements of the court, you also have a more flexible approach to timing and greater control over the decisions that affect you and your family’s future. The process is confidential because there are no public court records.
How does the collaborative divorce process work?
Our collaborative divorce lawyers are specially trained to reduce conflict and guide couples towards fair agreements. We facilitate open, face-to-face discussions in a safe and supported environment, where both you and your partner can discuss your needs.
Our team will guide you to reach mutually agreed solutions. We listen carefully, advocate for your interests, and support both parties work towards a fair outcome.
How do I reach a financial settlement in collaborative divorce?
The financial settlement in a divorce can often be the most contentious issue. In many cases this is decided by a judge in court if you go to litigation. Through collaborative discussions, we help you explore all available can show you what options are available. The financial settlement must be fair and practical for both parties. You must both be able to afford to live.
What about my children?
The welfare and financial security of children in a marriage or partner takes priority over all other issues in a divorce. We help you explore the best parenting arrangements and ensure they will be financially supported into the future. The collaborative process sets the tone for a healthier environment for your children than in a confrontational divorce.
What are the differences between collaboration and mediation?
In divorce mediation, there is one mediator guiding both partners, whereas in collaborative divorce, each partner has their own legal advisers. Mediation works well in simpler situations, but where they are complex financial or family issues, collaboration can be a more effective way forward.
Tees have a very client focused, bespoke approach which is of a very high standard. They are consistently pushing for their clients and achieve good outcomes for them.
Choosing collaborative divorce with Tees
- Avoid costly court battles
- Reduce stress and conflict
- Protect your children’s well-being
- Flexible financial arrangements
- Expert legal & financial advice under one roof
The process
- Initial consultation with your lawyer
- Joint meetings to discuss your needs
- Financial disclosure and planning
- Agreement on parenting arrangements
- Final financial and property settlement
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Supporting you to move forward
A collaborative approach can help you to:
- Reduce conflict in divorce with a calm, measured approach
- Avoid court and unnecessary costs, keeping you in control of the process
- Reach a fair financial settlement, that works in practice for both of you
- Resolve property ownership issues, by discussing all the options
- Plan inheritance, including reviewing your will after divorce
Fixed-fee pricing
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Case study: achieving a ‘clean-break’ divorce through collaboration
In this real-life case study, we explore how collaboration helped Sue and James navigate a complex divorce with mutual respect and clear communication. After 23 years of marriage, the couple sought a solution that allowed them both to move forward without bitterness. Using collaborative law, they reached an agreement on asset division, pensions, and housing needs, avoiding a lengthy and costly court battle. This case highlights the power of collaboration to achieve a ‘clean-break’ divorce, ensuring both parties’ financial independence and emotional well-being.
What does your financial future look like after a separation?
It is a question many people face, and one that needs both legal and financial clarity. At Tees, our family lawyers and independent financial advisers work together to help you make informed decisions from the outset. Whether you are considering mediation, preparing for court, or agreeing arrangements for the future, we will explain your options in a way that is clear and practical.
When a financial settlement is in place, we help you look ahead. Our advisers can support you in planning your finances so you can move forward with confidence. They are regulated by the Financial Conduct Authority, which means the advice you receive meets strict professional standards.
If you’d like to speak to one of our team, our family and divorce lawyers are based in Bishop’s Stortford, Cambridge, Chelmsford, North Herts and Saffron Walden – but we can help you wherever you are in England and Wales.
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Collaborative divorce FAQs
What does collaborative divorce mean?
Collaborative means working together but in the context of family law, it means more. Collaborative law is a particular way of both parties and their solicitors (who must be specially trained in Collaborative law) working together towards a resolution of points of dispute between them. It is an alternative to going to court, and couples who choose collaborative divorce make a commitment not to go to court.
How does collaborative divorce work?
Collaborative divorce begins with you, your partner and your respective solicitors signing a ‘participation agreement’. A participation agreement is a legally binding document to say that you will all work together and come to a final agreement on your divorce. Your solicitors will work as a team to guide you through discussions (called four-way meetings), giving you advice, making suggestions, testing options and steering you towards an agreement. Other expert advisers might also be able to attend the meeting to give extra assistance.
Is collaborative divorce legally binding?
The negotiations themselves are “without prejudice,” meaning proposals cannot later be relied upon in court.
However, once agreement is reached:
A financial consent order is drafted
It is submitted to the court for approval
Once approved by a judge, it becomes legally binding
What is the difference between collaborative divorce and mediation?
Both are alternatives to court, but there are important differences:
Mediation
A neutral mediator facilitates discussions
Neither party receives legal advice during meetings
Each person seeks legal advice separately
Collaborative divorce
Each party has their own solicitor present at every meeting
Legal advice is given in real time
Everyone signs a commitment not to go to court
For clients with complex assets, business interests, or concerns about legal clarity, the collaborative model can provide greater reassurance.
Is collaborative divorce cheaper than going to court?
It is often significantly more cost-effective than contested court proceedings because:
There are no repeated court hearings
The process is streamlined and structured
Negotiations are focused and transparent
While it may cost more than mediation, it is typically far less expensive — both financially and emotionally — than litigation.
How long does collaborative divorce take?
There is no fixed timetable. The process moves at a pace that suits both parties.
Many collaborative cases resolve within a few months, depending on:
The complexity of assets
Pension arrangements
Business valuations
The parties’ willingness to negotiate
This flexibility often makes it quicker than court proceedings.
Can collaborative divorce deal with complex finances or business assets?
Yes. Collaborative divorce is particularly well-suited to cases involving:
Family businesses
Shareholdings
Property portfolios
Pensions
Trust interests
Neutral financial advisers, accountants, or pension experts can attend meetings to provide joint expert input, often saving time and reducing duplication of costs.
What happens if the collaborative process breaks down?
If either party decides to issue court proceedings:
Both collaborative solicitors must step aside
Each person must instruct new solicitors for litigation
This requirement encourages everyone to remain committed to reaching agreement.
What are the benefits of collaborative divorce?
Many clients choose collaborative divorce because it:
Preserves dignity and respect
Reduces conflict
Keeps discussions private
Allows creative, tailored solutions
Helps protect co-parenting relationships
For families with children, it can set a more positive foundation for the future.
