Family mediation: A complete guide

Family mediation can be a practical and effective way to resolve disputes when a relationship breaks down. It provides a structured environment for couples to reach an amicable agreement, often avoiding the stress and expense of a lengthy court battle.

Understanding family mediation

Family mediation is a voluntary process where a neutral mediator helps couples negotiate and resolve issues arising from separation or divorce. It’s designed to promote respectful communication, enabling both parties to find mutually agreeable solutions.

When is family mediation helpful?

Family mediation can assist when couples face challenges agreeing on matters such as:

  • Division of assets and finances
  • Property arrangements
  • Child custody and visitation schedules

It’s a preferred alternative to court proceedings, often resulting in quicker and more cost-effective resolutions.

How does family mediation work?

Step 1: Initial assessment (MIAM)

Your mediation journey typically begins with a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM). This one-on-one session allows the mediator to understand your situation, explain the mediation process, and determine whether it’s a suitable option.

Step 2: Joint mediation sessions

Once both parties agree to proceed, joint mediation sessions commence. The mediator facilitates discussions, helping both individuals communicate effectively. Key areas of focus may include:

  • Finances: Dividing savings, pensions, and debts fairly
  • Property: Deciding on ownership, sale, or buy-out arrangements
  • Children: Establishing custody schedules and parental responsibilities
Step 3: Resolution and documentation

After productive discussions, the mediator will draft a Memorandum of Understanding detailing the agreements reached. While this document isn’t legally binding, it can be converted into a consent order by a solicitor, making it enforceable by law.

Benefits of family mediation

Choosing mediation offers numerous advantages, including:

  • Cost-effective: Typically more affordable than court litigation
  • Faster resolution: Agreements can often be reached within weeks
  • Control over decisions: You remain in control rather than relying on a judge’s ruling
  • Reduced conflict: Encourages respectful dialogue and compromise

Is mediation legally required?

In most cases, couples must attend a MIAM before pursuing court action. However, exceptions apply in instances involving:

  • Domestic abuse or safety concerns
  • Child protection issues
  • Bankruptcy
  • International jurisdiction matters

Costs of mediation

The cost of mediation varies depending on the complexity of your case and the number of sessions required. However, it remains significantly cheaper than court proceedings.

What happens if mediation fails?

If mediation doesn’t lead to an agreement, you can explore alternative dispute resolution options such as arbitration or proceed to court. Seeking legal advice from a specialist family law solicitor is recommended.

Family mediation case study

Case overview: Abigail and Graham faced disagreements over child custody, financial settlements, and property division after their separation. Mediation was recommended to avoid court intervention.

Resolution: Through five mediation sessions, both parties identified their priorities. The mediator facilitated financial disclosure, ensuring transparency. Ultimately, a fair financial arrangement allowed Abigail to remain in the family home while Graham accessed liquid savings to purchase a new property. Child custody arrangements were also amicably agreed upon.

Outcome: Mediation enabled Abigail and Graham to reach a mutually beneficial agreement without resorting to court, reducing stress and legal costs.

Conclusion

Family mediation is a constructive way to navigate the challenges of separation or divorce. By fostering communication and collaboration, it offers a path toward amicable resolutions that prioritise the well-being of all parties involved. If you’re considering mediation, contact a qualified family mediator to explore your options.

What is a child arrangements order during divorce or separation?

A child arrangements order is a legal document that formalises childcare agreements between parents who are going through a divorce or separation. It determines critical aspects such as where the children will live and how much time they will spend with each parent.

This type of court order is typically necessary when parents cannot reach a mutual agreement on childcare arrangements. Ideally, parents should try to resolve these issues amicably, often with the assistance of a mediator. However, if disputes remain unresolved, applying for a Child Arrangements Order through the court may be the best option.

Why might you need a child arrangements order?

You may require a Child Arrangements Order if:

  • You are unable to agree on custody or visitation arrangements.
  • One parent is not adhering to a previously agreed-upon schedule.
  • There are concerns about a parent neglecting their responsibilities.
  • Mediation has failed to resolve disagreements.

If both parents are cooperating and the existing arrangements are working, a court order is typically unnecessary.

How to apply for a child arrangements order

  1. Attempt mediation first:
    • Before applying for a child arrangements order, you are legally required to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) unless there are valid reasons not to do so, such as instances of domestic abuse.
  2. Seek legal advice:
    • A solicitor can guide you through the process, helping you prepare your application and submit it to the court.
  3. Attend court hearings:
    • Both parents will need to attend a court hearing, where a judge or magistrate will assess the situation.
    • A representative from the Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service (CAFCASS) may also provide input by producing a safeguarding report and making recommendations.
  4. Decision making:
    • The court will prioritise the child’s welfare, considering factors like their wishes, feelings, and overall needs.
    • If an agreement cannot be reached during the initial hearing, further evidence may be required before a final decision is made.

Specific issue orders and prohibited steps orders

In addition to Child Arrangements Orders, the court may issue:

  • Specific issue orders: For resolving specific disputes, such as which school a child should attend or whether they should follow a particular religion.
  • Prohibited steps orders: To prevent a parent from taking certain actions, like relocating a child abroad without consent.

Child arrangements orders vs. special guardianship orders

A Special Guardianship Order (SGO) grants parental responsibility to someone other than the child’s parents, often in cases where parents are unable to provide proper care. Unlike a Child Arrangements Order, an SGO allows the guardian to make decisions without requiring parental approval, although some significant decisions still require consent.

Can grandparents apply for a child arrangements order?

Yes, grandparents or other relatives can apply for a Child Arrangements Order, although they need the court’s permission first. This may be relevant if they have been acting as the child’s primary caregivers or if they wish to establish visitation rights.

How to change a child arrangements order

While Child Arrangements Orders are intended to provide long-term stability, circumstances can change. If significant changes occur, such as a parent relocating, remarrying, or experiencing financial difficulties, you can apply to modify the order. The court will reassess the child’s best interests before making any adjustments.

Expert legal support for child arrangements orders

Navigating the complexities of child custody during a separation can be challenging. Seeking the advice of our specialist family law solicitor can ensure that your child’s best interests remain the priority. Professional legal support can help formalise arrangements and provide clarity and reassurance during this difficult time.

For further guidance on child arrangements orders, contact our experienced family law team today.

Government debate: Funding for research into Fertility-related conditions

A debate is due to take place in Parliament on 1st November 2021 in response to a public petition to increase funding for research into Endometriosis and PCOS. The petition is calling for ‘more funding to enable new, extensive and thorough research into female health issues’.

Tees’ Family Law and Fertility expert Caroline Andrews is involved in the provision of information for MPs in order to assist the debate, and has been highlighting the long-term physical and emotional impact on women along with the resulting fertility issues that can occur.

A volunteer trustee of Verity the polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) charity, it is Caroline’s view that the strong public response to the petition underlines the chronic underfunding of womens’ health conditions that has taken place in the UK over a number of years.

Conditions such as polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) and endometriosis can have a wide-ranging impact on a woman’s life not just on her health, but also on her employment attendance and recourse to fertility treatment. PCOS is a leading issue for women undertaking fertility treatment and the process can be time-consuming and complex with financial and legal issues to contend with at an already difficult time.

If you are affected by one of these conditions and are looking to undergo fertility treatment, you can read Caroline’s article which outlines the important legal considerations and how we can help.

Why do I need legal advice for my fertility treatment?

Fertility treatment can be a stressful time for all involved and therefore it is important to ensure that you are fully aware of your legal position as parents in the future.

Speaking to a solicitor may be the last thing on your mind when undergoing fertility treatment, however it is becoming increasingly necessary to ensure that you take independent legal advice.

Caroline Andrews, family law specialist here at Tees has many years’ experience specialising in fertility and surrogacy law and has leading case law experience on the issue of legal parenthood, as well as an understanding of fertility-related conditions such as PCOS. In this article, Caroline outlines the various legal implications that must be considered by all parties when a child is born through fertility treatment.

Family law judges recommend that “any person considering fertility treatment should ensure that they are familiar with the legal steps around the treatment, given the significant impact it could have both in the short and long term”.

If you are thinking about undergoing fertility treatment, it is important to consider the legal issues. The law can be complex so if you are starting a family, there are some key factors to consider:

Who will be your child’s legal parents?

How does the nature of the treatment and any donors, or forms completed at the clinic, impact on the legal parenthood?

If you are conceiving at a clinic, it is important to understand how the law governs your fertility treatment and affects your rights to information

If you are not using an at home conception, does this change how the law looks at the status of any intended parent?

In addition, if you are conceiving with, or as a known donor or co-parent, being aware of how to manage relationships and expectations to avoid problems later on and knowing where you would stand if there was a dispute between you, are also important considerations that are worth taking the time to discuss with a legal expert ahead of time.

Should I use a fertility clinic?

The Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority (HFEA) regulates all UK licensed fertility clinics.  You must give informed consent to fertility treatment at a UK licensed fertility clinic and this requires a clear understanding of English law and its implications in practice for you, your future child and your donor if you use donor sperm or eggs.

If you don’t have treatment with a licensed clinic the situation is more complicated. There’s a risk that your donor will be considered a parent by law – with all the rights and responsibilities that brings.

What are my options if I am separated from my partner but wish to have a baby?

If you are separated from your spouse or civil partner and you intend to artificially conceive a child as a single parent, you should first obtain expert legal advice.  English law states that if you carry the pregnancy then you are your child’s legal mother.

Your spouse or civil partner will be the legal second parent of your child for English legal purposes unless it can be shown your spouse did not consent to your treatment and artificial conception. There will be difficulties with the forms ahead of treatment and presumptions in law after treatment so advice is essential.

What is co-parenting?

Co-parenting is when two people wish to be parents but who are not in a relationship together. This is a rising trend in America and becoming more common here in the UK.

If you carry the pregnancy, you will be your child’s legal parent under English law and your co-parent may acquire legal rights and responsibilities for your child which may or may not accord with your wishes and expectations. Therefore in this situation is extremely important to have a legal expert draft a co-parenting agreement, to ensure that the childcare arrangements are established and agreed on from the start.

A bespoke co-parenting agreement will also be an important tool if a dispute arises with your co-parent or if there is a change in either of your personal circumstances.

Will a known male donor have any legal rights in relation to my baby?

Yes, he may do.  Artificial conception with a known donor creates complex legal issues under English law.  Your known donor will be the biological father of your child. Irrespective of your wishes, he may also acquire legal status in respect of your child, to the detriment of your legal parental autonomy.  He may also acquire unintended financial responsibility for your child. 

If you are considering known donation it is strongly advisable to put in place a known donor agreement before conception.

Can I seek fertility treatment abroad?

You may be considering fertility treatment abroad. The HFEA does not regulate the practices of overseas fertility clinics.   You should obtain expert legal advice in your destination country because the law may be different from law in the UK.   There are a number of concerns as to treatment abroad in relation to medical health and legal impact such as immigration issues for any child.

Can I take time off work for IVF treatment?

There is no specific statutory right to time off work for fertility treatment which can often be time consuming and stressful. However, your employer should treat your medical appointments for IVF treatment like any other medical appointment. Similarly, if you are written off sick by your GP due to the side effects of IVF, your employer should treat your absence as no different to any other sick leave taken not in conjunction with IVF.

If you are at a medical appointment or off sick, you must make sure you follow your employer’s usual sick policy requirements. There are specific rules for surrogates in respect of employment rights.  The Tees employment team can advise you fully on your legal employment rights whilst undergoing fertility treatment.

Storage of frozen embryos, egg and sperm

The Department for Health has extended the time limit for frozen embryo, egg and sperm storage for a period of 55 years as long as consent is gained every 10 years. This is to protect people who were finding the previous limit of 10 years was not sufficient.

Fertility organisations had been lobbying the government on this point of law for some time so this extension to the time limit is very welcome.

Other considerations

If you are going through a pregnancy involving a surrogate, there are different interpretations as well as concerns around whether the intended parents can be present for the birth.  To combat past lockdown measures, the Family Court has put in place systems to facilitate hearings involving parental orders via telephone and video conferencing to enable matters to progress in spite of disruption due to Covid.

The importance of a well drafted Will

Whether undergoing fertility treatment or conceiving naturally, any prospective parent should think about having a Will drawn up.  Your Will should appoint legal guardians for your child in the event of your death and appoint trustees to manage your finances on behalf of your child until your child is old enough to manage these assets.  Given the complexities of who is deemed a legal parent, this can impact on who is considered a child under a Will.  Therefore, tailored legal advice for your family is essential to protect them. 

At Tees, our specialist Wills, Tax and Trusts team can help you prepare a carefully-worded Will to ensure that your child’s interests are fully considered.

Whatever your situation, our legal specialists are here to help guide you. We at Tees understand that undergoing fertility treatment can be an emotional time for you not to mention one that involves considerable cost. The approach of our fertility law specialists is highly empathetic having been involved in the fertility sector at many levels, whilst ensuring that you receive clear advice across the full range of family law issues that you might encounter on your journey to parenthood.

We offer a fixed fee service at competitive rates and can discuss funding options for court cases if an order of the Court is required.

Tees sweeps two awards

Tees celebrates double success at Cambridgeshire Law Society Excellence Awards

Tees, the local law firm with offices in Cambridge, Bishop’s Stortford, Royston, Saffron Walden, Brentwood, and Chelmsford, celebrated a double success by winning both the Excellence in Technology and Innovation Award and the Residential Property Team of the Year Award at the Cambridgeshire Law Society Excellence Awards. The awards ceremony was held on Zoom on Friday, 23rd April 2021.

Tees also received a Highly Commended award for Injury Litigation Team of the Year, and Private Client Associate Chris Claxton-Shirley was also Highly Commended as a Rising Star.

Celebrating legal excellence

The Excellence Awards celebrate the legal community of Cambridge across various categories, with winners chosen based on criteria such as excellent client service, technical capabilities, and response to the challenges posed by Covid-19.

Prominent attendees included Stephanie Boyce, President of the Law Society of England and Wales; The Rt Hon Lucy Frazer QC MP, Solicitor General; and Elizabeth Rimmer, CEO of LawWorks, which served as the Charity Partner. The awards ceremony was sponsored by Rathbones Investment Management. The Judging Panel was chaired by Ian Mather and included representatives from Rathbones Investment Management, AstraZeneca, Handelsbanken, Barclays Corporate, and FRP Advisory.

Excellence in technology and innovation award

Clare Pilsworth, Family Partner and newly appointed Head of Tees’ Cambridge office, accepted the Excellence in Technology and Innovation Award.

She said:

“Tees has been investing heavily in technology long before the pandemic hit, and we have continued that investment throughout the past year. Winning this award is a testament to the decisions we’ve made as a firm to be at the forefront of innovation and technology in the region. It also reflects the hard work of our IT team in implementation, integration, and training, enabling our solicitors to provide a seamless client experience.”

Residential property team of the year award

Julia Turner, Senior Associate and Head of the Cambridge Residential Conveyancing Team, expressed her gratitude upon receiving the Residential Property Team of the Year Award.

She said:

“This award means so much to the team. We have worked through unprecedented times, delivering a high quality of service. Our demand has grown substantially, and our success is thanks to the consistent hard work of our team.”

Highly commended injury litigation team

The Legal 500 Tier 1 Injury Litigation Team, led by Partner Janine Collier, was Highly Commended for their outstanding work. Tees provides a wide range of services, including personal injury, medical negligence, and inquest representation, securing settlements from modest to multi-million-pound amounts.

Janine said:

“A personal, tailored client experience is at the heart of our service. Each Tees lawyer has fewer cases than other injury practitioners so that they can truly understand the client’s needs and help them to a better future.”

Rising star recognition

Chris Claxton-Shirley received a Highly Commended in the Rising Star category. He shared his pride in his contributions to the firm and the community.

He said:

“I am proud of the contribution I make to Tees, our local community, and the wider profession. I am excited about what the future holds.”

Reflections from the group managing director

Ashton Hunt, Group Managing Director of Tees, expressed his pride in the firm’s achievements:

“Tees has made significant investments in technology over the past eight to ten years, enabling us to successfully navigate the pandemic while continuing to deliver excellent service for our clients. Continuing to invest in the best technology to support our people remains part of our core strategy, and I am truly delighted that the firm’s efforts have been recognised in this way.”

Resolving high-income divorce challenges and future income concerns

The division of assets is one of the main issues to resolve during divorce proceedings. For people with very high incomes and substantial assets, and their spouses, being able to reach a fair financial settlement is, understandably, a key concern, given the number of potentially complicating factors and levels of income that need to be taken into account.

Decisions as to what happens to future income is often where there is most difficulty in reaching an agreement in a divorce settlement involving a high-earning spouse.  This is particularly so where complex reward structures are involved that are not fully understood by one if not both spouses.

Failure to fully take into account incentive and performance reward packages can have significant implications on the outcome of a divorce settlement and risk restricting either party’s choices in the future, so you must seek specialist legal advice.

Incentive payments and performance payments not yet realised

There may be circumstances where there are financial resources in place through incentive and performance reward packages which originated during the marriage, although they are not immediately available at the time of the divorce settlement.

Such financial resources may well be shared in a divorce to achieve fairness between the earning and non-earning spouse.

Incentive and performance reward packages are aimed at attracting and retaining the best talent and are likely to be nuanced from firm to firm and industry to industry. However, enhanced remuneration structures do tend to follow certain themes, such as:

Share options (or stock options)

Share option schemes are typically used as an incentive for employees. A share option is the right to buy a certain number of company shares at a fixed price at some point in the future.  Share option schemes often come with tax incentives.

There are different share option schemes you may come across such as Company Share Option Plans, Enterprise Management Incentives, Nil-Cost and Nominal Costs Options, Share (Stock) Appreciation Rights, Sharesave Share Option Schemes and ‘Phantom’ Options.

Long-term incentive plans

A long-term incentive plan (LTIP) is a term that is commonly used among listed companies to describe executive share plans under which a company makes share-based awards to senior employees with a vesting period of at least three years.  Such structures are also often called ‘performance shares’ or, in the US, ‘restricted stock units’.

Again there are often tax efficiencies to these schemes.  LTIPs are not restricted to rewards in shares; cash also features in these reward structures.

Management incentive plans

A management incentive plan (MIP) most often refers to a scheme where the equity is allocated to senior management in a privately owned business.  The company is likely to be owned by a private equity house and the equity would vest with the senior management in the event the private equity house sells its share the business or the company is floated on the stock market.

Performance bonuses

A form of additional compensation paid to an employee or department as a reward for achieving specific goals or hitting predetermined targets. A performance bonus is compensation beyond normal wages and is typically awarded after a performance appraisal and analysis of projects completed and/or financial targets met by the employee over a specific period.

Sharing of payments – what to consider?

There is a distinction to be made between those sums payable under such incentive or performance schemes which realise a value in the future with no further input from the earning spouse and those which require further endeavour after the marriage is over to realise their maximum potential.

This will affect how the income derived from such sources will be treated in a divorce settlement.

The timing of payments will also be a consideration.  A performance bonus might be shared if it is awarded close in time to the end of the marriage, however, it is less likely to be shared if awarded well after the relationship is over.

As a general rule, it is possible to share in the benefits of such schemes even following divorce, however, consideration will be given to the value or opportunity which arose during the marriage against any extra input required by the earning individual to realise an enhanced value at a later date and whether this can be justified by reference to needs.

Future maintenance provisions

It is not always the case that in divorce, one party must pay the other an amount out of their income in the future. There has been a general movement away from maintenance being “for life,” with courts preferring to award maintenance as a shorter-term stepping stone to help the non-earning spouse transition into financial independence. In some circumstances, long-term maintenance can be required as part of a fair outcome in a divorce.

There are two classes of maintenance – child maintenance and spousal maintenance.  The two combined are often referred to as global maintenance. Where spousal maintenance features, a settlement or court order tends to be based on two principles:

  • what each party might need to live on in the future;
  • whether it is appropriate for each party to share in future financial resources.

It should be stated that future earnings or earning capacity, whilst relevant, is unlikely to be considered a matrimonial asset to be shared and so ongoing maintenance must be linked to a demonstrable income ‘need’ rather than a sense of entitlement or sharing.

Complex arrangements require specialist advice

The issue of the future value of income in divorce proceedings is complicated for both the earning and non-earning spouses, and specialist advice should be sought as soon as possible.

At Tees, our expert legal advisers work to ensure a fair financial settlement so that future needs can be met according to the financial resources available. We also work closely with financial advisers in our Wealth Management team where needed. They will ensure that any future financial planning considerations are taken into account so you both have a clear view of your financial future.

Farming divorce: Protecting your family farm

A farm is usually a family business, but it’s more than simply an income. It’s an all-consuming occupation and a way of life. Divorce has become part of everyday life, and farming families are as susceptible as any other to a marriage failing. However, farming divorces are more complex, so it’s vital that you seek expert legal advice.

Clare Pilsworth, Partner in the Family Law team at Tees, outlines the challenges faced in a farming family divorce and identifies steps that can be taken to ensure that the farming business is protected from the outset.

If the worst were to happen and your marriage hits troubled times, we will provide you with the expert legal guidance and support you need.

What factors are considered in a farming divorce?

The primary aim in a divorce separation is to establish what the needs of each party are and how these needs may be met.

The courts have very wide discretion to reallocate assets within a marriage to ensure that both parties’ needs are met for the future. This could mean being forced to sell off land or property in order to raise cash, which will raise some important issues for your farming business.

The first step is to define the assets and decide how to share assets built up during the marriage.  The Courts will then seek to ensure each party receives a ‘fair share’. A fair share, however, does not necessarily mean equal, and farming cases merit special consideration, including:

  • Inherited assets which are not subject to the sharing principle in the same way
  • A farm owned by the wider family, for example, with siblings, parents or both, will require careful thought as Courts are reluctant to damage the livelihoods of other third parties.
  • Provided there are sufficient liquid assets, the Courts can disregard equality in favour of protecting any inherited element

Whilst for non-farming divorces, an equal division of assets and wealth accumulated during marriage could be considered a fair divorce outcome, this may not always be achievable for farming families because of the need to preserve assets that were owned long before the marriage.

‘Fairness’, however, still requires financial needs to be met.

What about family members living on the farm?

You may have passed certain farming properties to your adult children or have allowed them to live in them to ensure that the needs of the farm can be met.

Where an adult child has received financial support or housing from a parent during the marriage which is then subject to divorce the Court can make an order against the child effectively forcing them to prevail upon parents or the extended family, to provide support in relation to  financial settlement.

It is therefore important to be aware of the potential implication of  deciding to financially assist children during their marriages. This is particularly relevant where a family’s wealth has been built through the farming generations, and the family want to prevent the farming business being broken up during divorce proceedings.

Do I need to go to court?

Contesting financial matters in Court within a divorce can be very costly and is not the only option open to you. The Courts are, therefore, placing more and more emphasis on non-court dispute resolution as a means of solving disputes because of the significant delays and expenses that come with court proceedings.

Non-court dispute resolution options, such as mediation, collaboration, and arbitration, are alternatives to court proceedings that seek to resolve matters as efficiently, cost-effectively, and amicably as possible.

How can I protect my farm?

Careful planning in advance is extremely important. By doing so, you can structure your arrangements taking full account of the specifics of your farming business and individual family circumstances.

There are several ways you can seek to protect your farming business along with future income streams:

  • Partnership Agreements

Partnerships are the most common business structure within the farming industry – they are relatively simple and a flexible way to run a farming business. By drawing up a partnership agreement, you will be able to ensure that it is made clear in writing exactly which assets belong to the partnership and which are owned by each partner as individuals.

  • Family Trusts

One way to protect the family farm is through a family or discretionary trust. This trust not only protects family assets but can also divide farm income to minimise tax.

A trust “owns” your family assets, such as the farm, investments, home, shares, or business, while you, your family members, or others might be beneficiaries under the trust.

Trusts can play a key role in protecting family wealth on divorce and can provide a means to assist adult children without risking farm assets. However, trusts should always be considered as part of a long-term strategy to protect family wealth, as a trust set up when a marriage is on the verge of breakdown is unlikely to withstand the scrutiny of the courts.

What about a prenuptial agreement?

Prenuptial agreements are an effective way of legally protecting your farming business, together with property and money acquired before a marriage. Entering into such an agreement before marriage allows you and your future spouse to plan how you will divide current and future assets should you divorce in the future.

However, there is something to be said for ensuring that the spouse marrying into the farming family does not feel excluded through entering a prenuptial agreement and, through the marriage, feels invested in the future success of the farm and business.

If a prenuptial agreement might be considered, it should be done so in light of the joint commitment of the marriage.  It is that commitment which will make the farm succeed as well.

It is important to take expert legal advice from a family lawyer who specialises in dealing with farming assets on divorce to ensure that the terms of the prenuptial agreement are sufficiently robust to be upheld by a court.

Certain criteria must be fulfilled for the agreement to be upheld and it is important for both parties to receive independent legal advice.

Expert legal advice for over a century

Tees’ heritage and culture has been rooted in the local farming community in and around East Anglia for well over a century, and its legal experts, many of whom are from farming families themselves, have decades of experience in dealing with all aspects of legal farming matters.

What is family arbitration? A guide for separating couples

Family arbitration is a private, confidential process designed to help separating couples resolve disputes without the need for a formal court application. It offers a faster, more flexible, and cost-effective alternative to court proceedings for disagreements over finances or child arrangements.

Sally Powell, an experienced family law professional, can guide you through the arbitration process. From selecting an arbitrator to navigating financial or child-related disputes, Sally provides expert support to ensure a smooth resolution.

How does family arbitration work?

Arbitration involves appointing an independent, qualified arbitrator who acts like a private judge to make a legally binding decision. Both parties must agree to arbitration and commit to accepting the arbitrator’s decision.

The process is adaptable to suit your needs. It can involve submitting documents, phone conferences, or face-to-face meetings. This flexibility makes arbitration a quicker and often more affordable solution compared to the lengthy court process.

What is an Arbitrator?

An arbitrator is a legally trained professional with extensive family law experience. With a minimum of 10 years of post-qualification experience, arbitrators undergo rigorous training to ensure they can deliver fair and impartial decisions. Similar to a judge, they assess evidence, consider legal arguments, and provide a written decision, called an “award” in financial cases or a “determination” in child arrangement cases.

The family arbitration process: Step-by-step

  1. Agreement to arbitrate: Both parties must agree to arbitration and appoint a suitable arbitrator. If an agreement cannot be reached, the Institute of Family Law Arbitrators can select one for you.
  2. Initial case management conference: This is often held via phone or in person to set out how the arbitration will proceed.
  3. Evidence and submissions: Each party presents their evidence and arguments.
  4. Decision making: The arbitrator delivers a legally binding decision in writing.
  5. Court approval (if necessary): In most cases, the arbitration decision is converted into a court order for enforcement.

Advantages of family arbitration

  • Faster resolution: Avoid lengthy court delays with a streamlined process.
  • Confidentiality: Protect your privacy with confidential proceedings.
  • Expertise: Choose an arbitrator with specific experience in family law.
  • Flexibility: Schedule hearings around your availability.
  • Cost-effective: Reduce legal fees compared to court litigation.

Is an arbitration award legally binding?

Yes. An arbitration award has legal standing and is enforceable in the same way as a court order. While appeals are limited, you may challenge an award if there is a serious legal error or procedural irregularity.

Arbitration vs. mediation

While both processes are alternatives to court, they differ significantly. Mediation involves a neutral mediator facilitating discussions to help parties reach an agreement. In contrast, an arbitrator makes a binding decision. In some cases, mediation and arbitration can be used together to resolve specific issues.

How much does family arbitration cost?

Arbitrator fees are typically agreed upon in advance, and both parties usually share the costs. While the fees vary depending on the arbitrator’s experience and location, the overall expense is generally lower than court proceedings. Additional costs may include legal representation and expert reports if required.

Get started with family srbitration

If you’re considering arbitration to resolve family law disputes, it’s essential to seek legal advice. A qualified solicitor can assess your circumstances and help you navigate the arbitration process. Contact Sally Powell for expert guidance tailored to your needs.

Family arbitration offers a practical, efficient, and private way to settle disputes, ensuring a fair outcome for both parties while reducing the stress and costs associated with court proceedings.

Using Collaboration to achieve a ‘clean-break’ divorce

Collaboration is a route to resolution which, in the right circumstances, can help couples find an amicable solution when a relationship breaks down.

Background

Sue and James had been married for 23 years and have a 22 year old daughter and a 20 year old son.

For several years prior to instructing solicitors they had not been getting along and been living more and more separate lives under the same roof. They decided to separate and sell their jointly owned house which was too large for either of them with a view to going their separate ways.

Problems Faced

The overall assets, including pensions and James’ company interests totalled approximately £2 million. Sue had worked part-time during the marriage in an administrative position but had no recent skills.

Our Solution

Sue also went to see a collaborative lawyer and both were assessed as being suitable to be accepted as collaborative clients. They held a good deal of mutual respect for one another despite no longer wishing to remain together. Neither had an ‘axe to grind’ but they needed clarity and legal guidance and advice due to the complexity of the situation.

Over a series of 6 meetings (4-way meetings), we assisted Sue and James identify their assets and financial circumstances and needs. This included:

  • An independent company valuation was obtained early on through agreement and an expert jointly appointed
  • A full report as to pension sharing and how equality of income might be achieved
  • Looking at monthly budgets and needs
  • Looking at James’ and Sue’s housing requirements

Outcome

To conclude, a mutually agreed settlement was arrived at which took into account James’ wish to maintain autonomy over the significant company assets without claim from Sue. Sue took a higher amount from the non-company assets (house and savings) to provide her with enough to buy a new home with a fund sufficient to enable the clean-break on income which both wanted.

Sue and James agreed a ‘pension sharing order’ which was based on both having broadly similar income at retirement.

During the process, the ‘reason’ for the divorce was also agreed within the face to face sessions and papers drafted in between sessions. The two collaborative lawyers were also mindful throughout as to the potential need for counselling and this was discussed with Sue and James, who separately agreed this may assist them. By adopting this approach, it assisted them to stay focussed on the issues and facts, rather than the meetings becoming emotionally too charged.

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